I went through Hell to get it back to the person who sold it - he lives in China and evidently does not trust anyone in the US. I have been going back and forth with his emailing his questions and requirements and I finally mailed it to him- Air Mail, obviously, to the tune of $23.50. It cost $30 plus $5 shipping to come to me.
He said he would pay me through PayPal. However, the questions keep coming and I finally sent him a long email telling him I had sent it and I was an older woman and would never, ever use eBay again.
The deadline to return it was Sept. 13th and I sent it out Sept. 12th. I have not found anything in PayPal. I am now $78.50 out of pocket. I will update this if anything happens. As I said before - I will never buy anything from eBay again.